7/12/2005

Making Others Change

No matter how much it pains us, we cannot make others change. The only thing you can do is change yourself and the way you look at things. When you live your life with less ego involved the less you try to change others and learn to just be with whatever is happening. In reality we cannot know what is better for another person. Thinking we know what is best for others and judging them is merely a way for us to deflect from doing what we really need to do, which is look at oursleves and our own lives.